It's VERY common in our house for children to have to wait for things. I'm one mom with two arms and three boys. Sometimes they all need something at once, and other times, I'm in the middle of other important things and they just have to wait a few minutes. That's okay, and from my perspective as a mom, it's hopefully teaching long-term character qualities like patience and contentment. I don't want my kids to have an attitude of 'want it now, get it now'. So honestly, their waiting doesn't bother me much anymore (at least not as much as it did when I was a first time mom).
It would be easier for everyone if babies and toddlers could just comprehend statements like, "I'll working on it!" and "Hang tight, mommy knows that you are hungry!". I'm often hopeful that they can be reassured of three things:
1. That I hear them.
2. That I'm doing something about it.
3. That my timing is going to be good. (even when I choose for them to wait)
Unfortunately, babies aren't like adults. All they know is that they have a need...NOW...and you aren't taking care of it fast enough.
I'm convinced that one of God's ways of sanctifying us as parents is showing us little glimpses into our relationship with him as "Father". And I think if we are honest, our hearts are much like babies and toddlers sometimes.
- We cry (complain / grumble / whine to our friends) because we want and need things.
- We don't really trust that our Father hears us - so we keep trying to either take care of it in our own way or we remain bitter and upset.
- We aren't really sure that our Father knows our needs, and don't feel confident that he is doing something we can't see.
- We haven't considered that our Father might be wanting us to wait for bigger and greater purposes (maybe even to teach us patience or contentment).
- We don't believe that our Father has our best in mind and has better perspective than we do.
Of course one thing that doesn't carry exactly in this analogy, is that sometimes when we think we need something, God's answer might be "no" or "wait a really long time" or "I'm going to give you something completely different". And even in this, I pray I can respond more like an adult who is okay with waiting a while (even for a lifetime), trusting my Father to give me only what's best for His glory and kingdom.